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Saturday, July 25, 2015

Pause

Tonight I'm done. It's not like I've never ever felt that I'm done with everything before but this time I feel like it's about time to just stop it. 

Over these couple months, many things have changed. People grew apart, people changed. I guess this is pretty normal for every human being. With the change of environment and the interaction with new people, gradually one will change. However, change can be good and change can be bad. I'm pretty glad that most people in my life changed for the good. They become much more vocal and more self-driven. 

Having said that, these couple of months have been really eventful and interesting to me. Friends that I never knew that could be close became closer and friends that I thought was close grew further. But growing further doesn't imply that our friendship is over, it's just our priorities became different. Nevertheless, they are still significant to me. 

I miss my best friend Rachel. Even though, we have not been meeting each other lately and all, I still regard her as my best friend. We may have our ups and downs, but that's why our friendship is as real as it gets. Through the years, we've seen each other through our good and bad times, we made bad and good decisions and last of all we made memories that we will never forget. This can sound cheesy and it can be easily misunderstood that I am declaring my love for her but honestly she is someone that I will never want to lose because of how much she has impacted me as much as I impacted hers. 
( HURRY UP COME BACK) 

On the other hand, I miss Jude. The last time I've ever met him was seriously ages ago till I can't even remember. He can be fucking annoying, sassy, bitchy etc, but he taught me a lot. He introduced me to mass communication and most of my ambitions were influenced by him. Having a friend like him was really a good thing. I become more opinionated and knowing how to defend myself in a conversation.
I seriously need to find time to meet him after countless of fail meetups. Kinda thankful that after all this years, this bitch hasn't change a bit maybe a little and that is he became super fearless. 

Good friends come with a few. Best friends only come with one. I'm totally beyond grateful of the friends I'm surrounded with now as in I know these people will stick with me forever. 

Maintaining a friendship with someone requires two hands to clap, if the other party didn't initiate any signal, try to be the one initiating it. It doesn't kill your pride and if it does think whether your pride is much more important that the friend that you wish that you can talk to again. However, if the other party doesn't respond to your signal, it's about time lay the friendship to rest. I'm pretty sure there are many people out there that will be worth your time and effort. 

"Why take friendship so seriously? They are not even related by blood"
To many I suppose, family comes first before friends. I do that too. But usually having to share my problems to my mum and dad is not an easy task judging by the fact that we have a huge age gap. And I am an only child. So, I usually take my closest friends as my so called 'siblings' and I will often be in contact with them, going out and hanging around. 

Having said that, I am the kind of person that literally open up my entire life.. Maybe not to the full extent if I am super comfortable with the person. However, I've been closing my door. I'm starting to close up because suddenly I don't feel safe anymore, a feeling that is rather hard to explain. So most of times, I will be trying my best to keep the spark alive but deep down inside it's a different story. Am I being fake? I guess not. If you think I am being fake around you then I guess you don't know me well enough. I'm still the happy go lucky guy but I won't open much anymore until I find it 100% safe with you. I can be talking crap and nonsense with you but if you genuinely know me long enough i have a different side. 

I treasure my close friends. I am not interested with temporary friendships and some of them I am starting to distant away. It's fucking pathetic when I see someone trying so hard to make friends with almost everyone just to make it seem that he or she has some sort of authority and power but seriously you ain't gonna last cause all you are trying to do is to collect them and then chuck them aside when you don't need to them. No one is gonna give a fuck about you when you can't even give a fuck about them. They start talking to you doesn't imply that they are your friends and then because of that you backstab and talk back about the friends that have been there for you like seriously that's why people lie to you, that's why people talk shit about you and lastly that's why people left you cause you FAKE AS FUCK. 

I have a good friend that it's pretty much a social butterfly and she has many friends and acquaintance but then why I know she's real? Cause she knows to prioritize who's closer to her and who's worth giving the extra effort to maintain the friendship. And that's why I'm proud to have her as my friend. 

Lastly, I don't like it when there's tension between good friends but then the problem is addressed to a middle party. It will never solve the problem and worst of all the middle party will suffer. If there is a problem, have a confrontation between each other. It doesn't kill, probably exchange of anger and rage but after all of that everything would be back to normal. AND if you are the middle party it is best to let the other party know the situation because if you genuinely take them as your friends telling them is helping them, keeping it will just make things worse. 

Choose your friends wisely. They will change your life and don't be a fake bitch. 

:)







Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Eleventh

Maybe if I tell myself enough
Maybe if I do
I'll get over you
Maybe if I tell myself enough
Maybe if I do
I'll get all over
You

- Ingrid Michaelson 

Friday, February 6, 2015

Pause

1. Appreciative 
- I'm glad that there are still people who appreciate whatever I do for them, however, it just gets me so annoyed when there are some people in my life that just so oblivious about everything and honestly I know whether you are appreciative cause I can see it from your actions. But still, I haven't left them because we are friends for a reason and yeah just got to suck it up. 

2. Judgemental
- Ok, come on, when someone says that they don't judge someone I kinda feel that they're not being honest and well because everyone judges. Whether you are judging them for a good reason or a bad reason either way it's being judgemental. Face it, we're not perfect and that's okay at least we're being real.

3) Love/ Relationships
- Well, as much as I want to be with someone in my life, it's really important to choose the right one for myself. Yes there are definitely times that I feel that I needed someone but I realised that I'll feel that way for a while and then a while later I don't feel anything at all. I can described it as like getting used to the loneliness HAHAHHA not saying that I'm like some desperate person that requires attention but yeah what I can say is that don't feel that loneliness is a bad thing because it's during the time when you're lonely that you'll discover yourself more. A relationship is not all about needing each other every single every second, questioning who they are with etc it's all about maintaining the connection and trust between each other even without seeing each other for long. And most importantly, putting in the equal effort to make things work. 

4. Goals
- Honestly, my biggest goal is now to be happier than before. Not saying I'm not a happy person I'm kinda thankful that I came so far as a person and been through enough to see the society much clearer than 2-3 year ago. It feels like I've grown so much and I'm really contented for the new people that have came into my life. Even times when I feel down, I'm so glad that I've found out things I can do to make myself much happier and occupied. Sometimes occupying your self with things can make you much happier especially things that are meaningful because that's when you feel that you have thoroughly made use of the day and you will feel extremely accomplished. Turning 21 can be quite the fear but I'll write about my expectation upon 21 in another post cause this post gonna be too long and no one gonna have time to read so long..

Well, today has been hell of a day some things are just not going right, Macbook giving me problems.. Just needed to tak a ride to my fav secret place to chill alone and write this blogpost out. Hope everyone is doing well, see ya soon :) 

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Throwback Thursdays : Bring me back to Penang 2013
























                                                                                                   















Thursday, January 15, 2015

Back again


It's been two years since my last entry.
There were so many changes in my life.
I kinda miss blogging and writing in this diary of mine.
Twenty Fifteen will be another chapter.
I hope to be writing more soon.

Thanks for reading :)

Sunday, December 1, 2013

#14 Weekends were made of these






It has been two weeks since I last updated and I think it's about time I should. This two weeks has been quite grueling, most of it is because of my major project, trying to finalize the sketches for my engineering design etc. But,thank god there is the weekends for me drift away to something more relaxing and pleasant. I know some of you might wonder why am I not studying for any test or examinations like the others, reason is just simply because for my school when the students are having their major project, they are not required to take any modules so that they can focus solely on their project.  

On the other hand, i wish that the weekends were longer cause honestly, i just don't want it to end. However,i think i should stop procrastinating and be realistic besides term break is in 2 weeks and so is Christmas #HOLLA X2. Okay good luck to everyone having their Semester Term Tests etc, I'll update you guys soon again. In the meantime, stay tuned for my super duper throwback Penang Trip post that'll be posting after this. TWO POSTS IN A DAY. That's quite ambitious of me. Okay au revoir ~


Tuesday, November 19, 2013

#13 Our Version Of Events

[ Cap:Topman, Jacket:ASOS, Shirt:Topman,Bag:ASOS, Jeans:Giordano, Shoes:Dr Martens ]
Credits to Fahriyah for being such an amazing photographer

Let's just say that the last few weekends have been,hmm, rather liberating(matter of speech). For the past few weeks, I've been stressing up lately due to school project work and I guess my weekends are the only opportunity for a certain escapism from reality. So i decided to go on an escapade with none other than Fahriyah to somewhere that of course i've never been before and that is the Punggol Lalang field. If you never heard of it before, I guess after reading this post, you will.

 Basically, it's been a while since I last came close with nature and let me tell you it's such a greattttt feeling. Like come on,  who would visit a nature reserve on a rainy saturday afternoon when they can go somewhere else where there is shelter? LASER LIM. Thankfully, when we arrived at the location, the rain subsided and it was just a mere drizzle.. THANK GOD. Managed to take a few pictures of the scenery and a few footage that will appear in a short video clip that I'll be posting up on my vimeo page soon. 

To get to Punggol Lalang field is actually quite easy. Firstly you got to alight at Punggol MRT Station and board the LRT. Drop off at Riveira and walk towards Exit A. The road that leads into the reserve is called Tembing Lane. When you see Popeyes Louisiana Kitchen, that's when you know you're on the right track. Walk straight and head to your left. You'll see a bridge that heads to the opposite land and that is where the Lalang field is located. Many people would come here to take their wedding photographs, blogshop photos.. 

It's just so beautiful and only when you visit the place you will know how i feel..



Went to support Vincent for his concert at Republic Polytechnic and i must say his solo performance sounded absolutely great even though i could see he was bloody nervous. Nevertheless, i was super proud of him and and got to meet Rachel at the concert after the countless fail meet ups where we were suppose to have thai food for dinner.. now i am craving for thai food..my life sucks..  Finallyyyy got the time to meet up with the section but sadly, Julian couldn't make it... Though the entire section wasn't there, Caleb and Bryan were great company too. Hope to meet them soon again. Now if you ask me what is one of the places that i'll never get sick of going to. i would say the Bukit Timah Area(Botanic Gardens)_ It's just that the atmosphere of the place is so different compared to the other parts of Singapore. Whenever i'm there i feel so relaxed like as if it's paradise. I definitely would suggest it to anyone who likes quiet places that has good ambience... but make sure you know where you are going or else you would end up lost like me when i decided to walk around sixth avenue; got lost with Vincent when he claim that there was a staircase that led to somewhere else at the end of a road but it was a dead end.It was super embarrassing cause the road was next to a condominium and the security guards were like thinking where on earth are they walking to.HAHAHA. 

CHRISTMAS IS COMING. CHRISTMAS IS COMING.CHRISTMAS IS COMING. I'm not gonna stop saying it reason is that cause i simply love christmas. First of all, you get to dress up and then the food and then the presents and then the decorations..look at the christmas lightings... GAHHHH. I just can't wait. 


Talking about dressing up, if i am not wrong ASOS is going to be opening a physical store in orchard central on Dec 14th and if it's true ASOS people mark down your calendar! For now, i'm full fledged Topman. 

I'm so sorry for the lack of updates. I promise to update more frequently from now onwards. Thanks for reading :)